Living Happy: Learning to Deal With Life

There are people who are good at dealing what happens in their life. And some people, of course, didn't have the aptitude to get on living, even though they work so hard to make sure that they will have a happy day ahead of them. One of the most used adages that I have been hearing over the course of my life in studying is that "Work hard now and you'll be playing harder in the future." Sure, that sounds great and all. But is there all life to is?

A farmer takes a lot of care for his crops and plants, but there will be an uncertain time that his crops would be devastated by the storm and his plants dried by sudden dry spells. Life surely is unfair most of the time, and the majority of the time, it is unpredictable. Such is the way the world we live in today.

If You Fall, Stand Up and Learn. Then Win It

Life is like a wave in the ocean. It's there, but sometimes, it falls short, and sometimes, it grows big. Never knowing when and where it will be a small wave or a big torrent of waters to show how impressive they are. Such is a life of humans. In ever you are in a situation that you feel like a tiny wave in a vast expanse of water, never lose faith in yourself. Humans have the ability called, "Learning" and "Adaptability" that they use these talents and gifts to make sure that they come out victorious at the end. Use those talents as much as you can when you fall, because in today's age, those who have knowledge and experience can survive in an ever changing and harsher environment that we call human society.

Be Excellent, Success Follows the Excellent

There are a lot of articles on the internet and bookstores that could tell you "How to Be Successful in These Easy Ways." They are helpful indeed, but what I see is different from what I read. In my eyes, people who are successful are people who excel at something. They could be an entrepreneur of some sort, or a lawyer, or even just a simple human, trying to find his way to the top. Of course, they did not just find their self on the pedestal, but because they strive to be excellent in their field.

Working to be one of the most successful writer in your niche, or genre takes a lot of work and patience. But as you practice and keep on writing, you will eventually to grow and learn a lot of things. These knowledge are what makes you an excellent person at the moment, but when people start to get to know you, success follows you. I may not be in the position to tell that yet, but proof of this kind of mindset is everywhere. You just have to take a small step in realizing that kind of view.

One Step At A Time

There are a lot of books to read, magazines about health and success to follow and a lot of things to do but a little time to compensate all of them. I know how that feel. We all do. But be patient and take one step at a time and no need rush. Enjoy the moment and learn slowly and surely, you will excel at the thing you wanted to do in your future. You just need to believe in your life in the future.

Make Sure That Your Future Self Will Be Proud In Your Present Life

Try to close your eyes after reading this post. Then imagine you are in the future, but try to be realistic about it. And try to appreciate and see what you are doing in the present as your future's past. Are happy about it or are you disappointed. If you found it disappointing, then it's the time to change you view in life and do things more meaningful for your future. If you wanted to be a successful lawyer in the future, then be an excellent law student in the present.

Don't Forget to Love

One last thing to add is that never stop loving. You may have a lover now or are currently single, but make sure to keep loving people and always smile. It will help you to see life in a brighter and happier direction and who knows, that loved one might be taking that small step towards your excellence with you.

You see, dealing in life is not all that hard. You just have to know what direction to face and a plan for your future. There are about 26 letters, so make a plan A, plan B, and so on and so forth, so that you are ready for the uncertainties of life. Learning to deal with life slowly and efficiently is one of the keys to living happily. Remember that.



  1. Hello Jarwel,
    Awesome post you have here. This one caught my eyes "If You Fall, Stand Up and Learn". What an awesome one is that, I have learnt to learn from everything that happens.
    Thanks for sharing and do have a wonderful day ahead.

    1. Thank you so much and I hope that you learned something with my post.

  2. This is a great motivational article, just what I needed to read right now. I like the idea of loving even if you're single or in a relationship. Great post, thanks for sharing and keep writing.

    1. Thank you. And it feels good that I was able to motivate you in some or little way I could so that you could at least take a small step in making you life happy again.

  3. It's true we have to live one day at a time and try to be our best every day. We live and learn. Awesome post

  4. A very motivational post indeed! I have had a lot of ups and downs in life, even to the point that I was so depressed that i couldn't stand up by myself. Things got really tough for me then. I guess the one thing that I really thank for is that I have a lot of people around me who supports me. And I'm thankful for that. :)

    1. It is good to know that you have people who supports you even during your down time. Hoping that you have a good life ahead of you and Thank you for dropping by.

  5. I love this post. Sometimes, we become caught up with adulthood. Other times, we just forget to enjoy thee simplest things. I especially like the one about the future self will be happy about.